Yakha yonke imindeni engajabuli ngezindlela ezahlukene. Isibonelo, uma umbhangqwana unavumelana ngokuhlukana, azikho izingane futhi azikho izimangalo zomhlaba, bese umshado usuqedwa ngomnyango we-RAGS.
Kodwa abameli bayelulekwa ngisho nangokwemvume yokuthi labo ababambe iqhaza bafaka isehlukaniso enkantolo, ukuze enye ingxenye ingakwazi ukushintsha izimangalo zabo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ungahlukanisa kanjani? Ngokuvamile, isehlukaniso singahlukaniswa sibe nokuthula nokuphikisana.
Eqinisweni, kulokhu, inkantolo iqinisekisa kuphela futhi ifaka iqiniso lokuqedwa komshado. Le nguqulo yehlukaniso yiyona esheshayo futhi "engenagazi".
Ngokweqile kakhulu, omunye wabashadile uyanxusa enkantolo, kanti omunye uphikisa isahlukaniso. Kulesi simo, izinyathelo zesehlukaniso zinciphiswa okungenani izinyanga ezintathu, ngoba inkantolo inikeza "isikhathi sokubuyisana". Okokuqala, sikukwazisa ukuthi ufune usizo lommeli noma okungenani uthole iseluleko sezomthetho. Kungcono uma isitatimende sokumangalelwa sihlanganiswa ngumchwepheshe. Futhi umsunguli wehlukaniso kufanele ayifake. Icala kumele licacise: indawo nesikhathi sokubhaliswa komshado, ukutholakala kanye nenani lezingane ezivame ukukhombisa iminyaka yobudala, futhi empeleni, isizathu sokuhlukanisa (ukuhlukana, ukungabi khona kobudlelwane bomshado, njll).
Ukuhlanganiswa nokusayina isimangalo sohlukaniso kubhekwa enkantolo endaweni yokuhlala komunye wabashade naye. Sihlanganisa naye isitifiketi somshado, isitifikedi sokuzalwa somntwana nesitifiketi esivela endaweni yokuhlala, kanye nekhophi yepasipoti. Ukufaka isicelo sokuhlukanisa, ungafaka isicelo esisodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuze ulandelane - kulokhu uzodinga nesitifiketi sokuhlala kwengane. Khona-ke udinga ukukhokha imali yombuso kanye nezindleko zolwazi nokusekelwa kobuchwepheshe becala bese unamathisela isimangalo sokuthola inkokhelo.
Manje ukuthi wonke amaphepha okuhlukanisa aqoqwe, angathunyelwa enkantolo futhi alinde inyanga nengxenye ye-ajenda, okuzobizela kokubili enkantolo. Kubalulekile ukuthi i-agenda iwele ezandleni zomlingani. Uma uhlala ngokwehlukana, thola ikheli lapho umyeni wakho manje ehlala khona. Uma ngabe akuphi lapho oshade naye engazi khona, isimangalo sifakwe ekhelini lokuhlala kwakhe kokugcina noma endaweni yendawo yakhe.
Ukuziphatha kwakho enkantolo kuzoxhomeka kakhulu. Ungacabangi ukuthi uma ukhala ngaphezulu enkantolo noma ubonise icala, ngokuphumelelayo uzohlukaniswa futhi uhlukaniswe impahla. Ijaji isebenza ngamaqiniso angenalutho, futhi imizwelo yakho eqinile ingenza umonakalo omkhulu. Unelungelo lokubheka njengemzamo yokucindezela enkantolo. Yiqiniso, owesifazane ongavamile angakwazi ukuzola lapho kuphethwe isinqumo sezingane zakhe noma indawo yokuhlala. Kodwa-ke, uma isehlukaniso sinzima, futhi wesaba ukuthi ungabhekana nemizwelo, khona-ke ngaphandle kosizo lommeli ongeke ukwazi ukukwenza.
Indlela yokwenza uma indoda ingabonakali ekulaleleni? Inkantolo ingasichaza ukucubungula icala lakho uma umyeni engayitholanga i-summons noma etshele inkantolo isizathu esizwakalayo sokuhluleka kwakhe ukuvela. Uma wathola isaziso, kodwa engabonakali futhi akazange abonakalise izizathu zokungabikho kwakhe, inkantolo inelungelo lokucabangela icala ngaphandle kwakhe.
Inkontileka yomshado
Ukuhlakanipha kwaseHollywood kuthi: "Kumelwe ube ushade ukushada ngaphandle kwesivumelwano somshado." Kodwa-ke, asikho eHollywood, kodwa ezweni lakithi abanolwazi bacebisa ngaphambi komshado ukuthi baphethe isivumelwano somshado. Amathuba okulwa kwesahlukaniso ayobe esancipha. Lokhu kuyisivumelwano sokuhlukaniswa kwempahla. Abameli batusa uhlobo lwedokhumenti, lapho ungahlukanisa ngokwahlukana khona ubunikazi kanye nobude bomshado, futhi uma kwenzeka isehlukaniso. Uma, isibonelo, umfazi akazange asebenze ngesikhathi somshado, kodwa wayehlala endlini, ngakho-ke ngemuva kokuhlukanisa, angase azithole ephazamisekile. Ukuze ugweme lokhu, ungafaka phakathi kwenkontileka into enjalo: "Uma kwenzeka isehlukaniso, impahla elandelayo idlulela impahla yomfazi: ifulethi, imishini, ubucwebe."