Kuwesifazane nomuntu, umsebenzi udlala indima ehlukene. Naphezu kokulingana kobulili nokukhululwa, isifiso sabantu besifazane ukuba bahlanganyele ngokujulile emisebenzini empilweni yangempela ehamba phambili emazweni aseNtshonalanga. E-Russia, iningi lezikhulu ziyizinsizwa, umsebenzi wabo uhlonishwa kakhulu kunomsebenzi osesimweni esifanayo sabesifazane. Ngakho-ke, inkinga enjengokudlala ngothando abesifazane besendaweni yomsebenzi iyophathwa ngendlela ehlukile.
Ukudlala ngothando ngomfana emsebenzini
Emaminithini okuqala okukhulumisana, amantombazane abelana ngothando nomuntu wonke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhangayo noma cha. Lokhu kwenziwa ukuqonda ukuthi ngabe lo muntu ufanelwe yini ukunakekelwa. Futhi emva kwesikhashana, abesifazane banquma isiphetho se-chevalier engenzeka. Wonke owesifazane uyakwazi ukuheha yena ngokwakhe. Kodwa akubona bonke abantu abaqonda lezi zici. Njengoba abacwaningi bakholelwa ukuthi, ukudlala ngothando, abesifazane bachitha isikhathi kuphela, futhi abathandekayo babo baqhubeka benganaki izimpawu zabo zokunakwa.
IYunivesithi yase-Indiana yenza ukuhlolwa kwabahlanganyeli abangu-300 (kokubili amadoda nabesifazane) basakazwa izithombe zamadoda nabesifazane. Kuye ngezithombe ezithombeni, kwakudingeka ukuthi usakaze izithombe zibe ngamaqembu angu-3 - okudabukisayo, okuthandana ngokocansi, nobungane. Amadoda avame ukudideka ubungane nothando. Abesifazane bavame ukudideka ukuziphatha kwabo namadoda, bese bonke abantu bezothando bachitha. Kodwa kukhona okungafani, amanye amadoda anemakhono ekufundeni lezi zimpawu.
Kunezibonakaliso zendawo yonke, banikeza owesifazane othandweni. Uma enza umuntu udumise, khona-ke uzuze impumelelo ethile. Ngokuvamile ubiza umuntu ngegama, ubonisa nesithakazelo sakhe. Uma engxoxweni, uthinta indoda, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi le ndoda ihle ngomfazi.
Naphezu kwemiphumela enjalo edumazayo, ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi awudingi ukuyeka ukudlala nomuntu oyithandayo. Ukudlala ngothando kunethonya elihle emsebenzini wokukhiqiza. Bachaza ukuthi emabhukwini amavunguvungu asebenzayo angaphazamisi imbangela, kodwa anikeze ekusebenzeni okukhulu. Ingxenye yabantu abaxoxwa nabo bathi ngenxa yokudlala kwabo ngothando, basebenza ngokuzikhandla. Abantu abayisishiyagalombili kwabayishumi bavuma ukuthi basondelene nabalingani nabo futhi ngenxa yalokhu baphindwe izikhathi ezingu-2 ngaphezulu.