Unyaka Wezingane: Amasiko Nemikhosi

Abazali abaningi, lapho ingane iphenduka ubudala, yenza uhlobo lokuhlolwa. Uyini amandla akhe nokuthi ngabe udinga ngempela yini kulesi sihloko.

Njengoba kwenzeka, izingane zalesikhathi zingakwazi ukuzwa i-aura yezinto. Ngakho-ke, umkhosi wenzelwe ukukhomba umsebenzi ofanele kakhulu emoyeni wengane. Ngakho-ke, ezinkolelweni, kubhekwa ukuthi isihloko esikhethwe ngumntwana siyoba ngumhlahlandlela wakhe empilweni yonke. Ngaphansi kwesiko samaVedic, abantu bahlukaniswa baba ama-castes amaningana: ososayensi, abathengisi, abasebenzi, amasosha. Ngalezo zinsuku, abazali banquma umsebenzi wekusasa wengane ngokubeka izinto eziningana ezihambisana nomunye umkhakha. Babenjalo: incwadi, imali, izikhali kanye nethuluzi lokusebenza. Abazali, ngemuva kokuba ingane yabo ikhethe, isazi ukuthi yimuphi umgomo wokukhuthaza ingane nokuthi yikuphi imboni engayifinyelela impumelelo. Kodwa ngokungafani nezindinganiso zanamuhla, ekuqaleni isiko senziwa nganoma isiphi isikhathi, hhayi ngonyaka. Kodwa ubudala bomntwana akufanele kudlule iminyaka eyi-1.5. Kwakukhona neminye imikhawulo: izinto zafakwa kuphela yilokho abona okokuqala (awukwazi ukubeka izinto zakho ozithandayo), ingane kufanele ikwazi ukukhasa ngesikhathi sokugubha, ukuze ifinyelele into noma ihambe kuyo, njll.

Okuqukethwe

Ungamhalalisela kanjani ingane unyaka wokuqala wokuphila? Izinguquko eziningana zokuhlelwa kwezinto Indima yabankulunkulukazi emkhosini

Kodwa abazali banamuhla baphatha imibuzo enjalo kalula. Abaningi abancane abancane nabafana bathanda lo mdlalo. Uma kungekho ubuhlobo obufanele nesiko, kungcono ukungenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngoba awugcini nje ukucacisa indlela yengane yakho, kodwa futhi uhlele naye futhi. Isibonelo, abanye abazali ngokuzijabulisa bangabeka ugwayi, utshwala kanye namakhondomu ngendlela ejwayelekile, yilokho okuseseduze. Ake ucabange uma indodakazi yakho eneminyaka eyodwa ikhetha indaba yokukhulelwa kwengqondo. Iqiniso liwukuthi lesi sici sizohlehliswa ezingeni elingenakuqhathaniswa, kuqala phakathi kwabazali, futhi bazofuna ukuphila okufanayo kumntwana wabo konke ukuphila kwabo futhi ngaleyo ndlela bahlele. Ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuba wenze "udaka" kusuka entombazaneni evamile. Icala elichazwe ngenhla yisilinganiso esingavamile kakhulu, kodwa kubizwa omama nabazali abasha ukuthatha ngokungathí sina noma yiziphi izinkinga eziphathelene nengane.

Uma uzimisele ukukholelwa ekubikezelweni nemikhuba, kanye nomphumela wokuhlela, ngakho-ke kungcono kuwe ukubeka ukhiye wemoto, amafulethi kanye nekhredithi.

Ngendlela, kufanele kubone ukuthi ingane idinga ukutshala hhayi nje phansi, kodwa ku-litter ekhethekile. Abanye bathi lokhu kufanele kube yisikhwama semvu, uma kunjalo, khona-ke ungakwazi ukuhlanza izingubo zezimvu. Abanye bamane bathathe umbhede omncane bese behlala ingane.

Kunezinhlobo eziningana zokubala ngaphambi kwengane. Ungenza noma yikuphi okuthandayo noma ukuxuba. Uma kukhona izinto ezinganele, zibeke kusengaphambili.

Izinguquko eziningana zokuhlelwa kwezinto

Inombolo yokukhetha 1

Ukufaniswa kokuphila:

• I-garlic ibonisa impilo.
• Amakhidi awuphawu lokuphila kahle.
• Isikhwama sisho ingcebo nokuchuma.
• I-chocolate ithatha impilo enhle futhi ejabulisayo (ungayifaka isanqante).
• I-tangle yeboya - ithembisa impilo ende.
• Le ncwadi ibhekwa njengophawu lolwazi nomqondo.
• Ibhulashi - lithi umntwana unamandla okwenza ubuciko.
• Imali - ibonisa ukuchuma (ingashintshwa yi-dollar).
• Ring - uprofetha umshado ophumelelayo.
• Izibuko-ziwuphawu lokuvuthwa kwesayensi.

Inombolo yokukhetha 2

Umsebenzi:

• I-Purse - ingane inomkhuba wokuba ngumbhange.
• I-Comb - stylist noma i-hairdresser.
• I-ladle - umpheki noma umama wendlu.
• Umshini - umshayeli wezokuthutha.
• Ibhola - ithembisa impumelelo enkulu ezemidlalo.
• Iphothifoliyo - izikhundla zokuphatha.

Inombolo ye-Option 3

Isici:

• Idoli - indodakazi ikhula (uma umfana).
• Amakhidi umndeni, ingane ekhulile ekhaya.
• Ibhange le-Piggy liyintombazane enhle kakhulu.
• I-wallet engenalutho - imali izosetshenziswa esikhathini esizayo, hhayi ukubala.
• Izinkinobho - umuntu omuhle uzokhula.
• I-Paint ngumuntu odala.
• Mask - ubuntu lobuciko.

Okuhlukile №4

• Ukuphila (nokuthi impilo yomntwana izoxhunyiwe):
• Incwadi - isibalo sososayensi esizayo, "umfundi ongunaphakade", ukhula emndenini.
• Izikhali - i-master yavela emhlabeni wonke (hhayi ukuthi iyisimo esihle, kodwa isandla sezandla zegolide kuphela.
• Igundane esuka kwikhompyutha - namakhompyutha noma ezinye izinhlobo zobuchwepheshe obuphezulu zizobhekana.
• Ama-pampers ngumama wesikhathi esizayo wezingane eziningi (ubaba).
• I-Trifle - ingane ecebileyo.
• I-garlic - izokhula inempilo
• Chocolate - impilo yakhe emnandi ilindele.
• I-Ribbon, intambo yesibindi noma i-tangle - ukuphila kuyoba isikhathi eside.
• Imbali (ngisho nasebhodini) iyimpilo yomndeni ejabulisayo.
• Ring - empilweni yakhe kuyoba khona uthando olukhulu.
• Izihluthulelo zendlu zifanekisela inhlalakahle enhle.

Ungamhalalisela kanjani ingane unyaka wokuqala wokuphila?

Vele udinga ukuxwayisa abazali abasha ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi ingane yakho ngeke idinge idili elihle. Ngokuphambene nalokho, bambalwa abamenyiwe, okungcono kuwe nakwaye. Masibe yingxenyana encane yabantu abajwayelene kakhulu nezihlobo.

Vumela onkulunkulukazi nogogo nomkhulu ukuba bakusize ukuhlobisa indlu yonke noma igumbi elinemibala enemibalabala. Amabhola azolawula isimo sengane hhayi nje kuphela, kodwa futhi nomuntu omdala. Masibe ama-clowns ahlukahlukene, izimoto, amadonki nezinye izibalo ezithakazelisayo.

Futhi, abazali bangenza i-albhamu ekhethekile ephepheni. Thatha izithombe ezithathwe ngonyaka futhi ngamunye uzihlanganise, ngenkathi ubeka izinsuku (inyanga) nephuzu lomcibisholo esithombeni esilandelayo. Thatha izithombe ezingu-12: kusukela kokuqala ukuvela ekukhanyeni kuze kufike ku-1 unyaka.

Ikhalenda ingaba nesihloko esihlukile: izinyo zokuqala, isinyathelo sokuqala, igama lokuqala nokunye okunye. Okusho ukuthi, ubonisa indlela ingane yakho eya ngayo kulo nyaka nokuthi wakwenza kanjani.

Ungenza umqhele omuhle wegolide uhlobe futhi uhlobise ngenhloko yengane, kanye nabazali.

Mayelana nokuthi yimiphi imibono yokugubha usuku lokuzalwa lokuqala, funda lapha

Indima yabankulunkulukazi emkhosini

Vumela onkulunkulukazi bakha amanothi ku-albhamu: bayobhala izingcingo nemilenze enganeni, ukuze kamuva ibone ukuthi iqala kanjani. Ungenza futhi umgodi ebhodini elikhethekile noma ngemuva kwamamitha enkuni (chaza ukuphakama) futhi uqhubeke nalesi siko njalo ngonyaka.

Isiko eside ukusoka kwezinwele zonyaka wokuqala wokuzalwa. Yenze kube ngunkulunkulukazi nobaba. Ngalokhu kudingekile ukuba unqume uhlangothi ngalunye lwekhanda (unqunywe kusuka ezinhlangothini ezine) nge-curl encane engokomfanekiso. Abanye bakhetha ukubopha i-nalyzo, kodwa lokhu akudingekile. Umkhosi wokusoka ovela ezinhlangothini ezine uwuphawu lwesiphambano, okungukuthi, sokuvikelwa. Ngakho-ke, uma umfana wakho esevele esekhulile futhi engena empini, i-curl iyomkhonza njengesigqoko esinamandla kunazo zonke nokuzivikela kulolu bubi. Ngenxa yalokhu, lapho indodana isemnyango, umama udinga ukusika izinwele zakhe futhi azibeke kulabo abaqedwe ngonyaka. Futhi, i-strand encane yezinwele ezincane kwakudingeka ifakwe empepho futhi inikezwe indodana yakhe. Le-amulet yakhelwe ukuvikela ukulimala, ukwehluleka nezingozi ezihlukahlukene.

Uma ngabe intombazane, izinwele zakhe zinikezwa ngosuku lomshado wakhe. Lokhu kunikeza indodakazi ithuba lokushiya indlu kayise kuze kube phakade, ukuze yakhe umndeni wayo ojabulayo.

Ngemva kokuba izinwele ziqedwe, kufanele zifakwe ngokucophelela ephepheni elikhethekile noma esandleni. Izinwele azigcinwa noma yikuphi, kodwa ekhaya, ngemuva kwezithombe zabangcwele. Ngakho unikeza ithuba emandleni kaNkulunkulu nomusa ukusiza ingane yakho. Kukholelwa ukuthi abangcwele balinda umuntu futhi banganiki amandla angcolile ukuba athathe umphefumulo wakhe.

I-Afterword

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani, umhlobiso omkhulu kanye nesizathu seholidi yiyo ingane, ngakho-ke yembathise kahle futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ingane ikhululekile kule dress. Yenza inombolo enkulu yezithombe ezihlukene ngememori. Namathisela izimvemvane ezihlotshiwe yonke indawo, ufake amapensela anemibala. Vumela ingane ingene kulo mpilo ngokukhazimulayo futhi ibuye iphile ngokugcwele.