Ngubani osesikhathini sethu ongatholi injabulo yesikhashana, ehamba ngokushesha njengoba idlula? Kodwa akuyona into engavamile ukuthi ukungezwani kwesifo akulona nje ukuluma kuwe, kodwa kuhlanganisa isikhathi, sikhula njengeqhwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abaqashi abahlale behlukumezekile, konke akusekhaya njengoba uthanda, futhi abantu abakuzungezile abafaki imizwelo emihle. Futhi yini okufanele uyenze kulokhu? Kanjani ngokushesha ukuzola izinzwa? Ukwenza lokhu kulula ngempela, into esemqoka ukwazi ukuthi kanjani.
Abaqeqeshiwe ezimweni ezinjalo, ngineluleka ukuba usebenzise izivivinyo ezimbalwa kuphela ezilula kodwa eziphumelela kakhulu ezingaqeda ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa cishe ngomzuzu. Kufanele baziwa yilowo nalowo, ngoba ngesigqi samanje sokuphila, isifo esilula singakhula kalula sibe ukucindezeleka.
Ngakho, indlela yokuqala ingahle ibekwe njengendlela yokubukwa. Ukuzolalisa izinzwa eziphahliwe, kwanele ukucabanga isithombe esithile, futhi kungcono uma iqukethe inhlanganisela yamhlophe namanzi. Ngenxa yocwaningo olude, ososayensi bafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi inhlanganisela enikeziwe enhle esimweni esinjalo. Okubalulekile kwalendlela kubhekwe lokuthi ngenxa yombono walo sithola ulwazi oluningi mayelana nezwe elisizungezile. Ngakho-ke, umbono wezithombe ezibukwayo kulula kakhulu ebuchosheni bethu.
Ngakho-ke, ukuze usheshe ukuzola izinzwa kudingeka uhlale phansi, vula amehlo akho, zama ukuphumuza, ubuyisele ukuphefumula okusheshayo, futhi ucabange isithombe esinezimhlophe emqondweni wakho. Ukuze uthole umphumela omkhulu, zama ukunciphisa isithombe esibukwayo sokuzwa ukuthi amanzi apholile athatha omunye komunye ebusweni bakho, ubuso, amahlombe, esifubeni, emilenzeni. Cabanga injabulo yokuthinta okuholela emzimbeni wakho futhi ujabulele imizuzwana engu-30.
Bese uzama ukubona "ukuthi lokhu konke ukugeleza kwamanzi kuvela kuwe, ushiye emhlabathini noma phansi ngesimo somngcele. Kulesi sithombe, umnsalo ubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba yilokho okuthinta yonke imizwa yakho emibi. Khona-ke, ngokububula okujulile, vula amehlo akho. Uzozizwa ulula futhi uzolile, uma imizwa engathandeki ngezinga elithile ihlala, ngokuqinisekile iyoya ohlelweni lwesibili.
Umsebenzi wesibili wenziwa kahle endlini yokugezela, ngemuva kokukhipha isicucu, ikhanda lekhanda noma i-necktie, uma ikhona. Bese uzama ukuphumuza, ubambe izandla ngaphansi komfula wamanzi apholile, uthinte kancane kancane ngesandla esiphezulu semanzi entanyeni, okokuqala, emaminithini ambalwa kamuva ngemuva kokubili. Qala kancane ugoqa intamo yakho ngezandla zakho, bese uhamba kancane kancane emahlombe akho. Ekuqaleni, ukuthinta kwakho kufanele kube mnandi futhi kube mnene, khona-ke amandla okucindezela kufanele akhule kancane kancane, afinyelele eminithini yayo emininingwaneni engamashumi amane, emva kwalesi sifo esincane. Khona-ke, futhi kancane kancane amandla okucindezela iminwe ayohliswa kancane. Ngemva kokwenza konke okushiwo ngenhla, kufanele uphinde udlulise izandla ezinomanzi ngezandla ezipholile entanyeni. Le ndlela yokuzilalisa ifaneleka kakhulu kwabesifazane, ngoba isikhumba sabo entanyeni sizwela futhi sizwela ukuthinta.
Kukhona enye indlela, okuzodinga kakhulu kakhulu. Kulo mdlalo, udinga ucezu lwendwangu engavamile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ithawula noma isikhala, kunzima kakhulu ukuthi indwangu izozizwa, ingcono. Ngakho-ke, indwangu iyatholakala, isezandleni zakho futhi ilungele ukuthatha yonke imizwa emibi eqoqiwe kuwe usuku. Ukububula ngokujulile, ukugubha isikhwama, noma ithawula elihlezi ezandleni zakhe, ukuhambisa yonke intukuthelo yakho nentukuthelo, ukuguqula indwangu ngangokunokwenzeka, zama ukukhipha konke okusemandleni akho. Ungacabangi ngokuliphula, yenza nje lokho okwenzayo. Ukuzivocavoca kufanele kuqedwe ngokushesha futhi ngokubukhali, ngokuvula izandla nokuphonsa ucezu lwezicubu. Lo msebenzi uzokusiza uzizwe ulula futhi ukhululekile, ikakhulukazi ezandleni. Uma uthanda, umsebenzi ungabuyekezwa.
Esimweni esicindezelayo, kufanelekile ukulalela umzimba wakho. Ngoba konke lokhu kungezwani akukhathazi kuphela isimo sethu sangaphakathi, kubonisa nemisipha yethu. Ngakho-ke, ukuzivocavoca ukuthi izinhlanzi ezingenakuphumula futhi ezinzima ziyosebenza kakhulu. Ungase futhi uzame ukuhlunga iminwe ezandleni zakho, ngeke nje ikuphazamise ekucaseni, kepha kungakuholela esimweni esithuthumayo. Ukwenza ngokuhlukile ngemizamo eyanele, cindezela isikhaliso se-nail somunwe ngamunye.
Zonke izivivinyo ezingenhla azizona eziyinkimbinkimbi, futhi ezinye zazo zingenziwa ngokushesha futhi zingenakuqondakala kahle endaweni yokusebenza. Uma ungazinakekeli, noma ngubani ongayihlanganyeli kulezi zinto.